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The term 'flatline' refers to what an Electro-Cardiogram (ECG) machine shows when it is connected to a person's heart and their heart stops beating. The line on the screen goes flat.

This magical practice is to stop 'flatlining' your interpersonal (and inter-dimensional) interactions by avoiding making offers that invite the person across from you to respond by being dead. In other words, the practice is to make only nonlinear offers, both to individuals and to E.C.C.O. (Earth Coincidence Control Office).

In a facebook comment from 1 August 2019, Gabriel Keczan wrote:

"I would flatline too if I was only looking for love and home. I also need purpose, mission. The journey from home to the horizon. As well as the return."

A flatline offer is, for example, "Honey! I'm home!", a movie quote, which if you can name the movie it comes from in less than a minute starting NOW you earn 1 Matrix Point for proving you have seen the movie... (I'm waiting...) C'mon! It's on the Possibilitator Training Films List...

Stop making ordinary, linear, dead offers even - especially - to someone you have known for longer than a year.

EXPERIMENTS: Figure out 9 ways to ongoingly create and deliver delightfully surprising new Purpose, Mission, The Journey from Home to the Horizon, and the Return in the offers you make. The point is reaching deep inside and outside to bring unmentionable new Possibilities into the current space. They are unmentionable becaues ordinarily the Space itself blocks perceiving or expressing them so as to maintain the integrity of the Space. Spaces tend to do that sort of thing. You do not have to abide by the rule of the Space. There are consequences to that. The consequences you would seek are experienceing delightful aliveness and fresh expressions of caring and wonder. Here are some proposals:

1. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.68 : SHIFT IDENTITY Each time you make an offer to someone, be aware of which of your multiple identities you speak from. Each offer you make can come from a different identity. Make time to create three to five characters for yourself, each with their own name, posture, speech patterns, accent, vocabulary, facial expressions, personal tastes regarding pie or how to eat fruit, table manners, personal childhood traumas, purpose, mission, journey, etc. Shift Identity regularly, so that your offers have a life of their own. Each identity can open a different door and in a different way. This automatically brings your partner to new kinds of interactions with you. When you change the point of origin from where the offer comes, your partner discovers a new facet of themselves to share with you. 
2. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.69: AVOID AUTO RESPONSES Whenever someone sneezes, forbid yourself to say, "Gesundheit!" ever again, for the rest of your life. Instead challenge yourself to make up a new response, also something that you never said before or will ever say again. Say, "Pancakes!" Or, "Your Excellency!" Or, "Twirl the wand!" Or, "Varnish!" Or, "Gravestone!" Or, "Gosh Darn It!" Or, "David's Sling!" Or, "Badger Pass!" Or, "Quality time!"... which are also things I've never said before nor will ever say again, even though I have used this practice for years. You can do the same practice with other autoresponses such as saying, "Excuse me." Or, "Hello." Or, "Good morning." Or, "Good-bye." Or, "All best wishes." Etc. If anyone asks you, "What? Why did you say that?" just give them a puzzled look and ask, "Well? What do you say?" Then ask, "But why do you say that? Really... why are you saying that to people? I truly want to know what motivates you to say that? What keeps you in the prison of always saying that?" This can lead to an interesting conversation. 
3. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.70: CREATE 9 POSSIBILITIES Each time someone asks you for ideas, give them 9 new ideas. Do not stop after one or two suggestions. Open up your connection to the Bright Principle of Nonlinear Possibility and keep making offers until you give 9 of them. Don't let people stop you. Even if you love the first or second idea you come up with, open of the field of opportunities of what everyone can choose from. You never know what #9 will be until you present the first 8 offers first. Create all 9 offers each time someone asks about 1. What is for dinner, or 2. How to celebrate a birthday, or 3. What to wear, or 4. How to pay the rent, or 5. Who could be on the Team, or 6. How to run for mayor of your village, or 7. How to invite more clients, or 8. How to represent your offers more interestingly, or 9. How to get to France for free. (Yes, I just did it here. Yes, I did it in #2 before, did you notice?) The need-door opens and you instantly go through the door. You make each step by rolling out options, especially options you never thought of before, added to the options from your various identities repertoires from #1 above. HINT: Do not laugh at your own surprising offers. Laughing at your own humor is like baking someone else a birthday cake and eating it all yourself. 
4. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.71: USE YOUR FEELINGS By now you might think that you would regularly be using the archetypal energy and information resources of your Feelings and Emotions to make nonlinear aliveness offers to the people in your daily life and interactions... Are you? I doubt it... Why do I doubt it? Because I have met people who have already done 5 Possibility Labs and still the numbness habits of modern culture and the giving-the-center-away-being-adaptive-to-authority-figures from school prevails in their behavior. This is probably not you, of course... but you know what I mean. This is a grave oversight... to avoid using your Feelings and Emotions to make fresh nonlinear offers to navigate to fresh new departments of intimacy. Here is the practice: take yourself into breakdown first. Begin with falling into your Liquid State. Prepare the person across from you with a sentence like, "I am in a Liquid State. Are you willing to be with me in this for a few minutes?" Asking their permission is important because it indicates that you are taking responsibility for your Liquid State and not blaming them. Telling them the time-frame is another important element of your invitation so they know when the thing will wrap up. If they say, "No," (or anything besides, "Yes") then you say, "Okay," and walk away. If they say, "Yes," then you say, "I feel angry / sad / scared / glad because..." and follow your feelings and emotions back to their source. Fall inwards apart into the emotional currents and let them carry you. It is important to not already know what you are going to say. Let your feelings lead you on a surprising journey beyond your knowing and beyond your thinking that you are empowering your listener to Hold Space for. Let them hear about your inner world. This will eventually encourage them to ask you to Hold Space for them to share their own inner journeys with you. There is always the next inner journey to make, waiting for you right now. 
5. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.72: INVITE TO STARTOVER You can start over no matter what the situation is, even if there is no situation. Enthusiastically ask, "Would you StartOver with me?" If they say, "Yes," then go online with your friend(s) to StartOver.xyz and drift down through the menu of doorways to Transformational learning Possibilities, until you almost-by-accident find something that attracts their interest and would feed the others to explore. Yes, the others. Go along with what the other person or persons feel excited about even (especially) if you have some resistance to it. The idea is: Relationships thrive through you committing to what the other person is committed to. Read through the distinctions, and thoughtmaps together. Watch the videos together. Read the articles and books together. And most importantly, do the Experiments together. There is so much to learn, and so much to change. The world needs you and your 3Cell exploring, transforming, and sharing what you find.
6. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.73: INVITE TO INITIATIONS There are a lifetime full of authentic adulthood initiatory processes to experience. The thing is, people around the world are engaging these initiations below the news radar and without permission. They are just doing it. People are upgrading their thoughtware, making powerful new distinctions, practicing with new tools and skills, and jacking-in to inner and outer resources that modern culture knows nothing about. You could be doing these things too. It turns out that when you do them in your 3Cell, in other words: not alone, the results are bigger. Your 3Cell can help you integrate what you got into your daily life, and you can help the others practice what they got even in their difficult situations. You can stand in the stands that you take in your initiatory processes even when you return to your ordinary lives, even under the pressure of the ordinary sleeping-world Zombie-making media onslaught. Think up nonlinear ways to make an offer to engage in initiatory processes together with someone you care about. Imagine that you were already experiencing the excitement of looking forward to one of the 51 Core Initiations this weekend? Wouldn't that make your week better? No one can get initiated for you. More interestingly, no one can stop you from getting initiated. Try making the offer at breakfast tomorrow to register for your next initiatory process together... What could stop you? 
7. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.74: DIG DEEP TO SPEAK ELOQUENTLY Each of our identities has a specific or limited vocabulary resource. We tend to speak in worn-out phrases because we think they are easier to understand. The problem is that the familiar phrases cannot deliver what you actually want to say. By using standard phrases you must pack your Universe-wide multi-dimensional Being into a tiny conceptual straightjacket that squeezes most of the life out of you. Then your partner experiences you as a dried up predictable boring handicapped moron, even if they still want to love you. You make it difficult for them to love you when you are not being you. Even if the person across from you is a complete stranger they still actually want to love you. Being able to love a new person would make their life richer, if such a person could actually be found. What if you felt free to love each person you met? What if you felt free to be loveable to each person you met? What kind of life experience would that be for you? We think it would be eloquent. Try the 27 Experiments to deeper intimacy.
8. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.75: MAKE A DO-OVER Each time you notice that you have made a flatline offer, immediately stop and say, "Can I have a Do-Over?" and without thinking or strategizing jack-into the Bright Principle of Nonlinear Possibility and launch into making the first non-flatline offer that comes down the tubes. Also, each time you notice that someone else makes a flatline offer to you, such as, "Would you do the dishes?" immediately make a non-flatline response that you will deliver if they accept. For example, do not make the offer, "Let us throw the dishes away and keep using new dishes until we have no dishes left, and then let's eat out of our home-made coconut bowls with hand-carved wooden spoons and hand-made chopsticks from now on," unless you actually do this. Do not make fake offers. When you make an offer and then do not keep to your word, you destroy the Space of Possibility and change it into the Space of Ridiculous Embarrassments. Then you lose your legitimacy as a Sorceress or a Wizard. Bad idea. Instead, carefully make impossible promises and then keep your promises. This is Legend Making. This is also a life of extraordinary and archetypal intimacies. Not flatline.
9. EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.76: INVITE THE PERSON ACROSS FROM YOU TO DO AN EXPERIMENT WITH YOU RIGHT HERE AND RIGHT NOW ABOUT THE CURRENT SPACE REGARDLESS OF HOW GOOD OR HOW BAD OR HOW UNKNOWN THE CURRENT SPACE SEEMS TO BE Every person you meet has built different Matrix from you. A person not accepting your offer probably means you need to become better at Scanning people's Matrix to detect exactly what kind of Transformational Experiment they would love to accept. Improve your Scanning so that you can custom design your Experiments to match people's Matrix more precisely. You can strengthen your Scanning abilities by designing Experiments for the children in your care to try if they want to. First, lie down on the floor or Earth near the children. If any of them come around you then they have decided on their own volition that they would listen to an Experiment that you offered. Experiments that I have offered to small groups of children that have worked spectacularly well include: Give each child a large raw carrot and ask them to cut it up with a butter knife to make 9 different styles of carrot pieces, then put them all in Minestrone soup that you make together for lunch. Or go outside and each child find a branch. Lean the branches up against a small tree to form a small Tipi frame. Get on your bellies and each of you carefully squirm into the Tipi frame with your head, shoulders and hands. Start to tell an Indian story from long ago about a brave young Indian girl and boy who meet each other while trying to find a lost arrowhead. You start the story and then pass the telling to your left so that each child gets to say the next part of the story as you go around the circle. Other experiments include: Make a small vegetable garden in the middle of your yard with seeds you have collected such as dried beans, squash, tomatoes, etc. by digging up the grass, remove stones, make rows, plant seeds, pull weeds, etc. Or divide into two Teams and each Team makes a Treasure Hunt for the others to follow to a treasure that you provide to each Team in secret. Or, pull a child's wagon around the town and collect walnuts, prunes, apples, lemons, dandelion flowers, hazelnuts, that other people are not collecting. Whatever you find bring it all home and make good things to eat from them. Etc. Design the experiments to be the next step for them to build Matrix. Now do this with people your own age or older.

Choose 2 of these non-flatline practices and implement them today. Choose 2 more and implement them tomorrow. Etc. Choose next to do the practice that you least understand how to do, which is also most likely the one you are most afraid to try. Proceed until they are all used up. Then create another list of 9 ways. Stop flatlining your invitations to living full out.

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In Expand The Box training, and in the Conscious Feelings book, for example, you discover that in Phase 1 of Conscious Listening there are 4 way to consciously listen:

1. NORMAL NEUROTIC LISTENING - Consciously using your Gremlin to go nonlinear from the invocation of the other person so as to shift the space.
2. ADULT LISTENING - Centered, Grounded, Bubbled, Present, Connected, Adult, Completion Loops, listening for us, for the collaboration - also known as 'Active Listening'.
3. POSSIBILITY LISTENING - Listening as a Space, as a service to the speaker who can essentially go anywhere with their thinking and feeling while the listening keeps one foot with them on their journey, and one foot grounded in solid reality.
4. DISCOVERY LISTENING - Listening as a Team for a Purpose, usually a Bright Principle, such as Discovery. Requires a Spaceholder, a Time Keeper, a Scribe to take clear notes and document the journey and bring back its treasures (new distinctions), and perhaps also a Walker, who continues moving slowly and unpredictably around the room to keep energies from getting stuck anywhere.

You may not yet have heard of Phase 2 of Conscious Listening.

Typically in Phase 1 of Conscious Listening each person sources the meaning they are giving to what they say and what they hear. Also typically, the person or persons you are conversing with are using - to one degree or another - Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware. The consequence of them using S.H.I.T. and you using Radical Responsibility thoughtware will inevitably be a subtle (or not so subtle...) context war. While the other person (or persons...) insist that it is possible to be a victim, that the 'right/wrong' point of view is not a Shadow Principle, that they may have a Box but they most certainly ARE their Box, that there is no such thing as a Gremlin, that Emotions are as valid as Feelings for dealing with the present circumstances, that their stories are INDEED TRUE, that there is such as thing as a 'problem', that gossip is not Gremlin food, that expectations should be fulfilled, that resentment and revenge are real inspirations for living, that reasons have the power when making decisions, ad nauseam.

It is not fair, but you can take Radical Responsibility for establishing and navigating the context through managing the meaning of what is being said. This requires you taking a stand that Radical Responsibility has already won. That, in fact, there is no contest. This turns into an art form.

When someone says, "I don't have enough money," you say, "I hear you saying that you would like to establish a new and more powerful relationship to money."

When someone says, "You have rejected me," you say, "I hear that you offering to tell me ways that I can be with you so you feel warmly welcomed, accepted, and appreciated."

When someone says, "You move so fast and decide everything on your own," you say, "I hear you saying that you care about me and you think I don't miss your ideas and input about what I am doing."

You are not asking questions. You are reporting back to the speaker the actual meaning that you let land in your 5 Bodies from what they say to you. At the same time, you are managing your own meaning that you give to their possible meanings.

Human communications are tenuous and fraught with ambiguities at best. You never really know what someone means. Maybe they don't even know what they mean. You have spoke often enough without knowing what you really mean to know that this is possible for them also.

Probably somewhere in the speaker is the wish to enter and stay in High Drama with you making interactions that take ownership of more responsibility along the path of forwarding consciousness. Look for that in them.

Look for that in you too. Keep your Gremlin focused on a short leash to help you. Keep your inventive scanner directed towards searching for the smallest shred of evidence for radical responsibility. The instant you find something - even by going radically nonlinear - grab hold of it. Dive into that evidence and unfold it more and more until radical responsibility and High Level Fun take over the space irrevocably. Then bathe in the radiance together!

This is not about making illogical jumps. This is not about converting someone to a 'positive thinking' belief system, or promoting the philosophical position of "Don't worry. Be happy." This is not about manipulation or control or domination.

What this magical practice is about is not getting off the elevator at the first floor.

Stay in the elevator with the person you are talking to. Keep vulnerably connected with them so they stay conversing with you and they don't get off at the first floor either.

Then the elevator door automatically closes and the elevator goes further up. Experiment with getting off at the thirteenth floor where joyfully nonlinear creation is possible together. Get off at the forty-fourth floor where extraorinary love is possible and you are communicate as initiated adults. Or stay on the elevator to the one-hundred-and-eighth floor, the beginning of the Archetypal domains where Archetypal Love is happening. The secret is staying together in the elevator and nobody push the down button.

EXPERIMENT BMAGICxx.79: (Great for your Possibility Team) Get in groups of 3. Spend 10 minutes all writing into your own Beep! Book things that people say that usually hook you into a Low Drama, confusion, justification, arguments, and really bad Friday evenings together. Then, one person starts as the Possibilitator, one person role-plays the Possibilitator's Hooking Agents one after the other and reads out lines from the Possibilitator's Beep! Book, and the third person Coaches the Possibilitator's Radically Responsible meaning making. The Coach must have their Sword of Clarity out and coaches everything. Rotate roles after 15-20 minutes of practice. Make sure each person plays all 3 positions.

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